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Chapter 12: Action Plans by Age ​

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What you should focus on depends on where you are in life. Here's a practical breakdown.

Your 20s: Build the Bank ​

This is your last chance to significantly add to peak bone mass. The window closes around 25-30.

Priorities:

  • Eat enough (undereating is the biggest threat at this age)
  • Get protein at every meal (aim for 1+ g per kg body weight)
  • Do impact exercise: jumping, running, sports, weight training
  • Don't smoke
  • Don't drink excessively

Watch out for:

  • Eating disorders or chronic dieting
  • Overtraining without adequate nutrition
  • Losing your period (women) - this is a red flag, not a badge of fitness
  • Very low body fat (both sexes)

Testing:

  • Not routinely needed unless problems arise
  • Check vitamin D if you don't get much sun
  • Get evaluated if you have a fracture from minor trauma

Your 30s: Maintain What You Built ​

Peak bone mass is reached. Now it's about keeping it.

Priorities:

  • Continue weight-bearing exercise and strength training
  • Maintain healthy body weight (not too low)
  • Ensure adequate vitamin D (supplement if needed)
  • Get enough calcium from food (1,000 mg daily)
  • Protein remains important (1+ g per kg)

Watch out for:

  • Sedentary desk jobs (get up and move)
  • Chronic stress (raises cortisol, bad for bones)
  • Starting medications that affect bones (steroids, some antidepressants)

Testing:

  • Vitamin D level is worth checking
  • DXA not needed unless specific concerns or risk factors

Your 40s: Stay Vigilant ​

Bone loss begins to accelerate, especially as women approach menopause.

Priorities:

  • Strength training becomes more important (preserves muscle and bone)
  • Maintain or increase protein intake
  • Ensure vitamin D is optimized (30-70 ng/mL)
  • Women: be aware of perimenopause symptoms

Watch out for:

  • Weight gain that leads to less activity
  • Assuming bone health is "an old person problem"
  • Ignoring early menopause symptoms

Testing:

  • Vitamin D annually
  • Consider baseline DXA if risk factors present
  • Women: discuss timing with doctor as menopause approaches

Your 50s: Critical Transition (Especially for Women) ​

Menopause hits most women in this decade. This is when rapid bone loss occurs.

Priorities:

  • Women: seriously consider HRT discussion with doctor (timing matters!)
  • Strength training 2-3x per week minimum
  • Protein needs increase—aim for 1.0-1.2 g per kg
  • Calcium: 1,200 mg daily for women post-menopause
  • Vitamin D: ensure levels are optimal

Watch out for:

  • The 5-10 year rapid bone loss phase after menopause
  • Dismissing bone health because you "feel fine"
  • Doctors who don't take early bone loss seriously

Testing:

  • DXA scan recommended for women at menopause, especially with risk factors
  • Vitamin D, calcium, and consider bone markers
  • Men: consider testosterone check if symptoms present

Your 60s: Active Management ​

Bone loss continues. Fall prevention becomes increasingly important.

Priorities:

  • Continue strength training (critical for muscle mass and balance)
  • Add balance exercises (reduces fall risk)
  • Review all medications with doctor (some worsen bone loss)
  • Discuss treatment if DXA shows osteopenia or osteoporosis
  • Stay active—use it or lose it applies strongly here

Watch out for:

  • Falls (more dangerous now)
  • Polypharmacy (multiple medications interacting)
  • Reduced appetite leading to inadequate nutrition
  • Social isolation reducing activity levels

Testing:

  • DXA scan: all women should have had one by now; men 70+
  • Repeat DXA every 1-2 years if on treatment
  • Annual vitamin D check
  • Consider bone markers to monitor treatment

Your 70s and Beyond: Protection Mode ​

Focus shifts to preventing falls and fractures.

Priorities:

  • Fall prevention is as important as bone density
  • Maintain strength training (even light resistance helps)
  • Balance exercises daily
  • Adequate protein (older adults need more, not less)
  • Review home for hazards (rugs, lighting, grab bars)
  • Continue or start bone medication if indicated

Watch out for:

  • Vision and hearing changes (increase fall risk)
  • Medications that cause dizziness
  • Dehydration and malnutrition
  • Fear of movement (leads to deconditioning)

Testing:

  • Regular DXA monitoring if on treatment
  • Balance and gait assessment
  • Vision and hearing checks
  • Medication review for bone and fall effects

Quick Reference: Key Actions by Decade ​

Age#1 PriorityExercise FocusTesting
20sEat enough, build boneImpact + weightsOnly if problems
30sMaintain, stay activeWeights + cardioVitamin D
40sDon't neglect itStrength trainingBaseline DXA if risks
50sAddress menopauseStrength + balanceDXA at menopause
60sActive treatmentStrength + balanceRegular monitoring
70s+Prevent fallsStrength + balanceOngoing monitoring

Universal Rules (All Ages) ​

  1. Don't smoke. Ever.
  2. Limit alcohol. 1-2 drinks max, not daily.
  3. Eat enough protein. Every meal.
  4. Take vitamin D if you don't get regular sun.
  5. Lift weights. The single best exercise for bones at any age.
  6. Don't be too thin. Some body fat is protective.

The Bottom Line ​

The best time to care about bone health was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.

Whatever age you are, you can take action:

  • Young? Build as much as possible.
  • Middle-aged? Maintain and prevent loss.
  • Older? Treat, strengthen, and prevent falls.

It's never too early to start and never too late to benefit.

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